THIS OR THAT





The uncertainties of life can make one confused. You know, that moment when you are completely oblivious of what could happen in the next 30 minutes. Making decisions can be like that. 


We all get to that point where we feel stuck, puzzled or perplexed. I know!  I just gave synonyms of the word- ‘confused’. I like to believe that life is a journey and just like a road trip, there would be crossroads with a lot of “what ifs” and what not. 



We procrastinate on making decisions sometimes, because we are scared of the aftermath and so we decide to ‘hang in there’ (wherever ‘there’ is) and do nothing. Sometimes, we shy away from the realities staring at us in the face and deceive ourselves by remaining on the fence, like that would solve anything. 

We are a reflection of the choices we make. The time we decide to get up from bed, the book we decide to read, the skill we decide to acquire, the kind of friends we have, our taste in music, our meals, our clothes…everything we do all bores down to  two words- THIS OR THAT?
                       

Decisions are a vital part of our lives and we should begin to take them seriously. The focus is- what do you want and what is the right thing to do? Be conscious and deliberate about every decision you take concerning your life and the choices you make from now on, because it all adds up.

#whatistherightthingtodo
#thisorthat

#decisions


Comments

  1. UnknownMay 30, 2020 at 4:19 AM

    Procrastination is a thief of time, I refused to be satisfied with 'just hanging in there.'
    I'd never settle for mediocrity.

    Life is truly a journey, and I intend to keep moving forward no matter how tough it gets!

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    1. Pheyy's BlogAugust 4, 2020 at 12:38 AM

      Very True.

      Constantly fueling our determination is key.
      Thank you.

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